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Sympathy card messages

There’s no perfect thing to say. A few honest words can let someone know they’re not alone.

21 ideas to make your own

I’m so sorry. I love you, and I’m here whenever you need me.

I wish I could make this easier. I can sit with you, listen, or help with the everyday things whenever you want.

I keep thinking about the time we all spent together. I’m grateful for those memories, and I’m here to remember with you.

You don’t have to find words for me right now. I’m thinking of you and I’ll check in again soon.

Sending you love today and in the days ahead. I’m here.

We can talk about them whenever you feel ready. I’d love to hear your stories, even the ones I’ve heard before.

There’s no need to reply. I just wanted you to know you’re on my mind and you can call me any time.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m thinking of you.

I care about you so much. If you’d like company, a walk, or someone to handle dinner, tell me what would help.

I remember how warmly you spoke about them. I’m sorry you’re going through this, and I’m here with you.

You can be quiet with me. We don’t have to talk about anything unless you want to.

Thinking of you and sending love. No need to reply.

I know there are a lot of people checking in today. I’ll be here next week and next month too.

I’m here for the hard days and the ordinary ones. Let me know if I can sit with you for a while.

I’m very sorry for your loss. We’re thinking of you.

I’m so sorry to hear your news. You’ve been in my thoughts, and there’s no need to reply to this.

I know a card can’t say enough. I wanted to send my sympathy and let you know I’m thinking of you.

Please take the time you need. We’ll be glad to see you when you’re ready.

Sending my condolences to you and your family.

I’m sorry you’re facing this. If a practical thing at work would help, please ask me.

There’s no need to respond. I just wanted you to know your colleagues care about you.

Make it sound like you

If you knew the person they lost, share a small memory. If you didn’t, say you’re thinking of them and offer help you can really give.

These are starting points. Change anything that doesn’t sound like you.

Writing from the whole group?

Give everyone room to add their own words, photos and voices in one card.

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